I'm a big guy. Generally don't do selfies for this reason exactly. It's not from one or a small group of individuals, either. I get this as a first reaction from a dozen sources a day, even strangers. I can't smile anymore.
This is all I can imagine when I hear my boyfriend masturbating to me during calls hehehe. Cute lil subby boy he is (he's in Ireland and I'm in Québec QwQ)