I'm a big guy. Generally don't do selfies for this reason exactly. It's not from one or a small group of individuals, either. I get this as a first reaction from a dozen sources a day, even strangers. I can't smile anymore.
Looking for some crazy ideas: Today's kink calendar requires me to "Do something risky". I mean we're pretty gentle and dont exactly go wild very often. Hers was "Recieve oral sex" if that helps? 🤔