36/M 160 lbs. talking to a friend about insecurities. We all have them. I have long been insecure about my body hair, narrow shoulders.. and if being honest, size of penis. But, they put themselves out here so I will too.
I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.