I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.
40(f) - 130lbs - 5ft 7. I have always focused on my flaws, what I would rather have or how I would prefer to look. over the last year or 2 I've realised I should be grateful for what I have.