40(f) - 130lbs - 5ft 7. Just a normal working mom with a normal working mom bod. I didn't appreciate myself until my mid 30s, but I learned that mostly, the flaws were only something I saw. xx
I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.