I guess snow is my thing now, and there is still a little left. [F38, 5'8", 135 lb, one child] I don't like the squinting but it's hard to avoid in strong sun so it's ok.
I've gained 20 lb in the last year. It's not sustainable to rely on your "conventionally attractive" parts for confidence bc our bodies change constantly. It's a lesson I keep relearning.