I [F] just wanted to drop you an image of my little guy [M] in his happy place between my thighs. Don't give up hope. Gentle/Mommy Dommes exist and/or may be cultivated. Know what you want and seek it, craft it.
Looking for some crazy ideas: Today's kink calendar requires me to "Do something risky". I mean we're pretty gentle and dont exactly go wild very often. Hers was "Recieve oral sex" if that helps? 🤔