It’s hard not to compare yourself to all these people with “perfect” bodies you see here on Reddit sometimes, but comparison is the thief of joy at the end of the day. Be happy with what you got!
M 38, 142lbs, 5'8" because of insecurities I look at myself always wondering only if a could add 10-20lbs. It's hard for me to gain weight but I do LOVE the gains I've gained in the last 5years(20lbs)
A few years ago I was called undesirable by a girl in my face. Years later here I am with my crappy bg removing skills and the question if I am desirable?