My girlfriend now uses my reddit account with me! And she thought it would be fun asking you guys if you prefer me locked or unlocked? In his defence, his little friend is not fully hard 😈 Happy to answer any questions!
You can't really say that he's missing out due to his cage as he would slip out in the position anyway all the time. The cage is the simple and easy solution for him. He does not need to be ashamed of being a bad fuck anymore.