I [F] just wanted to drop you an image of my little guy [M] in his happy place between my thighs. Don't give up hope. Gentle/Mommy Dommes exist and/or may be cultivated. Know what you want and seek it, craft it.
My partners do this to me all the time without even trying.. and I become such a weak domme momentarily~ but I always compose myself quickly. I know I'm the one in control..