I remember the first time I put a bell on Slavewife's collar. She got upset and said it wasn't pretty or sexy, it just made her feel like a doll I was playing with. To her credit, she figured out within seconds that that was the point.
I was sent down to the basement to kneel over the weight bench for a brief mid-day spanking to improve my sassy and grumpy attitude. Spoiler: It worked! š